Wrapping up It is hard to be open-minded but it is possible. The big question remains: should you be in an open relationship? Most people would like to be more open than they are right now. The majority of people struggle with this concept. Mindfulness involves both concentration a form of meditation and acceptance. This single truth makes strong and obvious sense; yet is still far too often ignored particularly by bosses—but ignored by spouses, team leaders and employees as well. Try to be open to what that person is sharing about their feelings.
If you can master this skill, your ability to speak, to hear, and to share fully and with an open mind will increase many fold. These are critical nuances that you miss entirely when you jump in too quickly to speak. I have 40-plus years experience in selling, innovation, and on using the soft skills of character to substantially increase personal and organizational success. Learn to see things from his or her point of view. So, wanting to share with other people these inner feelings and these inner thoughts is one way of becoming open.
However, if we work really hard and try to understand the hurt, if we share the hurt and are open about the hurt, we are actually being more open at a deeper level. How many attempts did Thomas Edison make before he invented the lightbulb? Are you having trouble maintaining a monogamous relationship? Throughout high school and college, some of my relationships overlapped, and some were purely dishonest. An example is someone talking about doing badly on a test. Be honest — when was the last time you dated with an open mind and heart? In the name of being open we say everything we feel or think to others, but fail to be sensitive to others feelings about our openness. Yes, you might have the best intentions, but the results are many misunderstandings and miscommunications.
Are you ready to offer your compassion? Even more are interested in the concept. Many people discover that as a relationship develops, openness is reciprocated and the relationship becomes more meaningful. What if you fall in love with someone else? There is a big difference between someone aspiring to be a leader and a bum trying to get a free meal meaning a lot of options in between. How to when you define your personal image? Why people behave the way they do. And no I cannot be with a man who is strong, who doesn't understand that he has to be the man in the relationship because I can't do it for him, and he does need to be able to provide not saying he has to do all by himself and it's not only financial then that is my criteria. Enjoy this video and let us know your thoughts. About the Author Linda Ray is an award-winning journalist with more than 20 years reporting experience.
I enjoy taking calculated risks I am a business major and entrepreneur with 2 successfully operating business before I met her. We were both always aware of the existence of other lovers, but it was clear that we were each other's favorite. I try to practice this in every situation and it makes life a hell of a lot easier and less complicated. Change your questions into statements you can make about yourself. There is no use in letting your ego speak in the middle of a verbal fight. People who read regularly are usually knowledgeable and open minded. Me: My family of men are made up of leaders and providers I can do that by myself and if a man is coming to me he needs to be able to do the same.
I can also complain to him when lovers are uncool to me, and vice versa. You have to be a strong man to be with me The the following conversation ensuded I left out names Friend: What do you bring to the table? If you say what you mean and mean what you say in 2009, you will enjoy amazing dating results and be well on your way towards your happily ever after future. That inner person is a complex person who has a variety of thoughts and feelings. Colonel Sanders reportedly tried his chicken recipe 1,009 times before his 1,010 th idea met with success. We made a new rule then: No sleeping with Facebook friends, no friending lovers. Sit quietly in a comfortable position and focus on your natural breathing. Diversity An open-minded workforce is one that accepts a wide range of cultural experiences that can only help your company compete in a global economy.
Learn new things If you are an expert in a field or a particular area, try learning something in another field. Letting go and being open to new things can only bring you closer together. They usually have a panel of experts who can share their perspectives. Discover the beauty and power of keeping an open mind. . Being open is a kind of invitation to others. I'm not saying monogamy is impossible, or improbable.
The moment you think you know something for sure you are limiting yourself. We build and modify the relationship—and the rules—as we go. Without judgment or anger, she was able to determine exactly what had happened, sleep on her decision, and then decide how best to proceed. Sometimes, we have an attitude or feeling about something and we're afraid to share it, we're afraid to be open. Before I draw any conclusions about this, I need for you to tell me about it. When she is not writing, she can be found doing yoga on her paddle board or searching for the best vegan donuts in town. Consider your partner might be tired, frustrated, stressed out, helpless, hopeless or scared.