Every time he suggested that we do something, I always asked him if he was sure and then we would talk about in great detail for hours before doing it. Anyway, he wanted me to go over to his house the next day and i said ill c, but come the next day i told him i just cant do it because despite the attraction im just not the kind of person who rushes into sex. There are multiple reasons why a guy might suddenly lose interest in a woman he was very interested in previously. Like, maybe you go to lunch once in awhile and do some fun things together… but primarily, is it a sex based thing? I get about 50-70 emails per day, and meet 5-10 new people socially per week. This kind of thing is going to happen with some regularity.
Thats when he proceeded to let me know how i should give it time snd how he doesnt want to commit because he was not over his ex. He still has feelings for his ex. Those are a few examples of why a girl would lose interest in a guy, from my experiences anyway. I apologized and he saw how sincere I am yet he said he cant go back, now I am confused I dont know what to do, pls I need advise, I find it difficult to sleep, lost my appetite and my head really hurts. How about this, until a man is mature enough to act like a grown ass adult and treat people and their time with respect he not date anyone. Your first date did not go well. He liked the island girl that could twerk it in bed i guess.
I told him not to thank me because im here for him and i believe in him. And with the length of courtship going from months see: Emma by Jane Austen , to days see: 20 th century telephone era , to minutes for reading an online profile, and 0. What you can do is to get your own house in order. I had a busy few weeks and he was really pushing to meet up, and we agreed one night after about 3 weeks of texting to have a quick drink to see if this was actually something. A few days later i ran into him and he looked down n told me he had been seeing a therapist who knows i hugged him and teased him a little,and that was that.
Maybe you hang out a few more times, but then something changes. Couples jump into relationships without being friends first sharing long talks doing things together with others being respectful of feelings thru good and bad times, then if its more it will blossom into something real and lasting. We went on three more dates the next week. Anyway, as we were leaving he told me he really likes me and i told him he knows its not true because he only wants one thing from me. I have had far too much experience with this paradigm to have much patience for it. This post originated on Attract the One.
Then your fears and insecurities rise to the surface and seep into your interactions with him. I think the most important is how he makes you feel. He replied that he was so sorry but things had definitely not changed and he was sorry that I felt we were on different pages. Or he clearly indicateds that he likes me, but suddenly after 2 or 3 day it's all gone. Sometimes what you are or what you do becomes the deciding factor. Neither of us contacted the other.
I know where this is going and since then have realized that what this article is talking about makes 100% sense for what happened. The key take-away from this is that you should not take such vanishings personally. They like saying they have been rapes why so they can get your money by falsely suing you. This is actually a well-written eye opening article. It annoyed the shit out of me.
Maybe he was really interested, but then you had sex and now he's not because he's a tool. Then I hung out with him again and could not figure out why I could not just be the way I was anymore, just whatever and nonchalant. That makes me question his intentions and makes me run away. Guys definitely thrive on conquest. So now you start feeding that little flame with slightly bigger dry things—twigs and leaves—usually already setup to make the most of the flame. This need for reassurance even when not explicitly stated from her stops the development of his feelings in their tracks. What could be so wrong that they suddenly lose interest without even going for a coffee.
But, if the wooly mammoth just followed the hunter home and jumped on his pit, it would not have tasted so sweet, and the celebration surrounding the feast would be short and boring. I have been going on other dates too but it just feels like a never ending process, even if we meet someone promising and play it cool…. If a guy flirts with other girls or talks about other girls around us and we like him, it will make us give up hope. My question is— I have one last opportunity to talk to him and now that I realize this, is there any hope of salvaging it? He actually likes you, but he finds your earnest Christian tendencies dampening his enthusiasm. She starts looking for even more reassurance in any form the smallest emoticon tossed from him will do.