His father is very vocal about his opinion and that creates issues. In order to figure out the solution to this problem you need to know the whole problem entirely. My girlfriend does not live with me either as she is studying at a distant college. Gonna have to get all metaphysical on you. Choose a collared shirt or tuck in a casual shirt, even if you are just going over to your girlfriend's house for a simple dinner. My son was with a girl we did not approve of and he even planned on marrying her. You are sounding very immature yourself right now too.
I returned the last month rent she paid that is how bad I wanted her out. If your partner is up for it, play on opposing teams so they get a chance to interact with your friends on their own. We openly say what's on our mind and then deal with the issue. Get to a place where you feel confident that you have options. She asked my husband for money, my son has said if she sees we are helping him out Financial she might eventually come round. For example, if you don't have time to cook, get frozen dinners at the store, so you can just heat them up or order take out, and place foods on nice plates, and put fancy tablecloth on your table, candles, and put music on to set the mood. Your son is a grown man, with his own life.
If she does become his wife, think of the good that will come of it after you have built a foundation of good rapport. I can totally relate to your feelings. Never says hello, thank you, etc. Obviously your son is a smart man and she must be doing something great for him so no matter how you feel about her as long as she is being good to him you should try and accept her. So this post is dedicated to the other half of a dating relationship: The girls that our sons date.
It's important not to judge the girl or he will rush to her defense. About the Author Based in Texas, Lucie Westminster has been a writer and researcher since 1975. Hello, my situation is very hard and I truly feel like my son hates me at this point. She and he will hear about it, and then the honeymoon is over. So for sure I am in defense mode when they talk with me.
She walked right in front of my car while I was at a stop sign. You just need to love and support him including his decisions. She pretends that she does not see me or ignores me. Going through serious life stuff. We have tried to give our son his space, included her in many family gatherings, dinners, etc. Have a clear sense of what behaviour is acceptable and what is not.
If you want to distance yourself away from him and his girlfriend, do it. Your life is just as important as his. Try to treat him like the independent young man he has become. And i know i should not let myself be brought back down but i have an anger issue i guess because no matter how hard i try to have a mature loving kind relationship i always get so mad at the immaturity level of her. I even renovated her house and spent lots of money but now there is a problem when i support my girlfriend. I know this is probably the lesson in it all.
I can only suggest that your area of expertise is love, the love of being his mother. When he does come by to grab closes he says hello mom and closea the door in my face. Or maybe they'll just share a quick drink with your friends every once in awhile. I respect her stress at work but she never seems to respect mine. I have the worst relationship with my inlaws.
When I bought my grandson those items I also purchased clothing in 12 month size at her request for her son. I just wish this person just wouldn't have even met my son at all and that is terrible to state or even feel. Hi Lori, Sounds like her social skills haven't been cultivated, nor her ability to show empathy. But this is not just a girlfriend. I visited this site for different reasons other than the three listed above. I have been asking my son long before this day if he has girlfriend or if he likes someone so I would meet her to know more about her.